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About James Haggerty

Experienced Chief Executive Addiction Recovery and Mental Health Professional Business professional in the Addiction Recovery and Mental Health industry for the past 26 years. Caring, compassionate and strongly motivated to make a difference in the organizations I am affiliated with and welfare of the population we serve. Currently focused on advocating, educating and developing projects leveraging evidence based, real time technology to support individuals in recovery.

The Future of Recovery Support: Where Systems Fail and Where We Step in

There is a long history of fits and starts, failed attempts, and questionable perspectives when it comes to substance use disorder (SUD) treatment. Unfortunately, some of these issues still exist today. A lack of long-term support, poor funding, limited insurance options, and a one-size-fits-all approach to care hold people with SUD back from recovery.

As someone who’s faced many ups and downs on my own recovery journey, I know how difficult it can be to find an approach that works.

A Broken System Still Dominates

It can be extremely challenging to find alternative options to the standard addiction recovery systems. That’s why we created East Coast Housing Opportunities, or “ECHO” for short, so you can discover the success you and your loved ones have been searching for. Many individuals fall through the cracks of impersonalized care, underscoring the need for a more effective system to address SUD. This is precisely what you’ll find with ECHO, where we connect people struggling with SUD to nonprofit recovery options.

I’ve come to terms with the fact that SUD is precisely what its name states – a disorder. As with all other disorders, treating everyone experiencing it the same way is not a path to success. It takes courage to admit that SUD has created an enormous obstacle to a healthy life, and even more courage to pursue a more positive future. When the system has failed over and over again, people deserve an alternative to traditional rehab: one that prioritizes personalized care and a new approach to recovery housing with a safe environment where they can grow and heal.

Where Systems Fail

To determine what kinds of improvements are needed, we must examine how the system has failed in the past and continues to do so in the present. Here are some examples of problematic procedures in the modern-day rehabilitation system:

Early Discharge Due to Funding or Policy

According to Harvard Health (HHP, 2021), one of the key steps an individual must take to successfully quit using a substance is to remove oneself from their standard environment. This enables them to form new habits away from situations, people, and potential triggers that could result in a relapse.

When people are forced to leave prematurely, they’re more likely to fall back into old habits, especially without care staff and with the return to the environment that once hosted substance misuse. Unfortunately, plenty of people in recovery have experienced just that.

Whether they can’t keep paying the incredibly high expenditures of the average rehab facility, lack the necessary insurance to support their stay, or have stayed as long as the facility allows, many people are forced to leave before they are ready. Worse yet, they’re leaving without a stable living situation to transition into or the long-term recovery support they need to maintain recovery. This is one of the most significant issues people face when working with standard rehabilitation facilities.

Gaps Between Detox And Integration

When people are forced to leave an addiction rehabilitation program before they have concrete steps in place to help them continue their healing journey, they may be vulnerable to a recurrence (formerly known as relapse). Perhaps even more dangerous are gaps between detox and integration into a treatment program. It’s one thing to move from a previous program directly into a more long-term setup, but gaps in the first stages of addiction treatment can lead to a period where a newly detoxed individual is forced to rely on themselves without medical or psychological care.

People leaving detox may still be going through withdrawal, and without a proper treatment structure in place, they are at risk for a recurrence. In addition, this critical juncture may lead to second thoughts about beginning treatment, as well as posing a physical and mental health risk. This is not a sign of the individual’s failure, but rather the faulty system that did not provide them with streamlined access to continuing care. I know firsthand that these types of gaps can cause enormous setbacks in the recovery journey.

No Support for Families

When you think about addressing SUD, you may envision a singular victim. The truth of the matter is that the problems SUD can cause tend to bleed into the lives of surrounding individuals. Families are often expected to shoulder the majority of the burden of helping their loved one find and access resources to overcome SUD, especially if many of the available options are out of their price range.

This leaves a person freshly out of the withdrawal phase or freshly out of treatment dependent on inexperienced families. In addition, while it may seem harsh, family members have a life beyond helping their loved one recover – even the most compassionate and caring individuals still need to go to work. With no other option, families are often forced to take on the role of transition counselors while leaving a very vulnerable family member home alone. Support matters – not only to the person recovering, but also to their family.

The Homeless Recovery Gap

The Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration, often abbreviated to “SAMHSA” (SAMHSA, 2021), states that roughly 38% of homeless individuals are alcohol dependent, while 26% misuse drugs. It’s a staggering statistic that should not overshadow the fact that unhoused individuals deserve to get well just as much as anyone else. Unfortunately, these individuals will almost certainly return to an unstable environment upon release from rehabilitation programs. As such, they are often thrown right back into a world of drugs, alcohol, and prior triggers.

As previously stated, recurrences become increasingly likely when an individual does not have a secure place to continue their recovery. They also experience obstacles pursuing safer circumstances, as it’s difficult to find and hold down a job when day-to-day life is controlled by an SUD. The standard types of addiction recovery systems may be able to successfully wean unhoused individuals off drugs or alcohol, but it is hard to maintain these results when they don’t have a safe place to continue treatment once they are forced out of the rehabilitation facility.

Lack of Peer-Led or Community-Based Housing Options

Community-based recovery is an incredibly important aspect of SUD recovery, but sadly, there are not many options. For individuals experiencing mental health issues, serious injuries, grief, and more along with SUD, community support is a valuable asset when it comes to pursuing healing. The opportunity to walk alongside others with the same goals, as well as those who have successfully completed their time at a community-based or peer-led house, can be an immense source of encouragement.

Peer-led and community-based housing options are, simply put, living spaces where drugs and alcohol are replaced with positive support and mentorship. This means those on the road to recovery do not need to worry about coming into contact with potential triggers in their living space. Unfortunately, there has been and currently is a severe lack of spaces like this, leaving vulnerable individuals to deal with a world full of temptation and people who are not invested in their recovery.

Shame-Driven Models That Harm More Than Heal

For so long, those who struggle with SUD have been belittled and treated like lesser members of society. Questionable or biased research led to false claims that, if they cared enough, these individuals should be able to resist giving in to temptation. It was even suggested that SUD was a symptom of weak character.

With all we know now, recovering individuals should not be subjected to these mistruths and mistreatment. This is sadly not the case. Many people still feel judged by those around them, leading them to hide their SUD or relapses from the very people who should be supporting them. Shaming an individual does not lead to improvement, but to regret and insecurities. It often drives them further into the depths of SUD.

Where ECHO Steps in

ECHO’s goal to help develop and work toward systematic changes when it comes to rehabilitation care. The team and I have analyzed the various aspects of past and current care options and worked to understand what made their systems faulty, inconsistent, and ineffectual. Then, we did everything in our power to implement a far more successful and consistent model at our community homes.

Here are some examples of the various aspects of recovery we decided to focus on:

Offering housing support and safe recovery environments
Implementing community engagement and mentoring
Providing long-term, wraparound support beyond treatment
Introducing education, training, and purpose-driven opportunities
Collaborating with other nonprofits and providers to close gaps
Creating a model built on connection, compassion, and continuity

When you synthesize all these elements and tailor them to the needs of each individual, a successful recovery is possible. People no longer need to adjust to a one-size-fits-all approach to recovery or hurdle all the gaps it can leave. Instead, they can work collaboratively with people who are eager to find solutions that fit their unique needs.

Just as people receive a unique care plan for a torn ACL or a heart condition, they deserve personalized strategies to help themselves or their loved one overcome substance use disorder. Recovery is possible with the help of intentional care partners and ongoing support. We all deserve to get better, and ECHO is striving to provide resources for a healthier future.

Why the Future Must Look Different

When it comes to developing successful addiction recovery systems, continuous progress is deeply important. Accepting certain truths about recovery is also an essential component of growth. Whether you are struggling with SUD, a loved one needs help overcoming addiction, or you recognize the need to plan for the future of recovery services, it’s vital to accept that real transformation takes time, trust, and an investment from all parties.

Recovery is not a one-size-fits-all system, nor is it linear. While I would love to be able to say that everyone can complete a 28-day program and walk away healthy, this is usually not the case. Even those who have overcome the initial steps of recovery will tell you it is always a battle. Without ongoing support, recovery can quickly revert to recurrence, and without a better framework in place, individuals will be subject to the same cycle of systemic failures every time they make the difficult choice to seek help.

Developing, funding, and normalizing a system based on long-term care, community, and dignity is not only possible, but also deeply necessary. Long-term health and success do not come from quick fixes and outdated views of SUD but from hard work and consistent support. ECHO takes this to heart, which we demonstrate in our drive to create and provide access to community-based housing resources.

Join the Mission

Whether you are struggling with SUD, know someone who is, or are looking to help develop and increase the number of community-based care options, ECHO is ready to walk alongside you. Healing from SUD is a multi-step process that requires support at all stages. Please join our mission to help more people access the support and compassionate, streamlined care they need to not only achieve but maintain recovery.

Sources:

SAMHSA PDF Report: Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration. (2020). Substance use disorders recovery with a focus on employment and education (Publication No. PEP20-06-04-003). U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. Retrieved from https://library.samhsa.gov/sites/default/files/pep20-06-04-003.pdf
Harvard Health Article: Harvard Health Publishing. (2021, February). Five action steps for quitting an addiction. Harvard Medical School. Retrieved from https://www.health.harvard.edu/diseases-and-conditions/five-action-steps-for-quitting-an-addiction

James Haggerty

Experienced Chief Executive Addiction Recovery and Mental Health Professional

Business professional in the Addiction Recovery and Mental Health industry for the past 26 years. Caring, compassionate and strongly motivated to make a difference in the organizations I am affiliated with and welfare of the population we serve. Currently focused on advocating, educating and developing projects leveraging evidence based, real time technology to support individuals in recovery.

jameshaggertyrecovery.com

How AA Teaches You to Live Every Day in Gratitude

As we move through March, the festive spirit of the holiday season may feel like a distant memory. During fall and winter, celebrations such as Thanksgiving, Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, and others emphasize the importance of gratitude, reminding us to cherish the food, gifts, and moments shared with loved ones. Yet, the practice of living in gratitude shouldn’t be confined to a specific season. It holds immense value throughout the entire year, particularly for individuals with AUD or those navigating the journey of recovery.

Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), in particular, features many guiding principles that can be used to help you recover from alcohol use disorder (AUD) or any substance use disorder and emphasizes living every day in gratitude. Of course, doing so is challenging for anyone, including people in recovery, but a focus on AA can help.

Our ECHO Recovery community frequently references the principles of AA and how they can help you not only seek recovery but also empower your life and work toward self-improvement. So, while I know how much alcohol can impact both the individual and the family and just how much work it takes to ask for help and walk the path toward recovery, a focus on gratitude can be one of the most important components of maintaining that walk. AA can teach us all how to live every day with gratitude.

Why Is Gratitude Important In Recovery

If you’ve ever experienced alcoholism or known a loved one who was struggling with AUD or substance use disorder (SUD), you may have encountered the characteristic negative self-talk about your/their character, future, and more. Unfortunately, when you think and behave negatively, it can begin a cycle that’s hard to change. However, if you can remind yourself to be grateful for the things that are going well – no matter how small – you can improve both your mental and physical health. In fact, studies have shown that people who think more positively can experience health benefits, including a healthy weight, low blood pressure, and a longer life.

By practicing gratitude in recovery, you can focus on more hopeful thoughts, which can help you gain the confidence you need to navigate the process and begin a more fulfilling life. I know how difficult this can be because there are many times when I’ve dwelled on past mistakes instead of finding gratitude for the many wonderful things happening along the way. But, if you can incorporate gratitude into your daily routine as part of your recovery, you may find the process easier to navigate.

What Does AA Say About Gratitude

AA is known for its Daily Reflections book, which provides members with an inspirational quote or message that is meant to help them through their day. Daily Reflections are meant to inspire you to take a moment to think about your current goals and your intentions for your day.

In terms of living with gratitude, AA specifically notes that gratitude is what enables you or your loved ones to feel loved. Members of AA have noted how being grateful for being in recovery, as well as being grateful to have supportive friends and family members, helped them to feel peace in recovery. When you live every day with gratitude, it becomes easier to enjoy life, enjoy others’ company, and inspire those who are struggling to make changes.

Referencing AA’s Daily Reflections may be what you need to begin living with gratitude for what you have so you can continue working on your goals.

How Do You Live in Gratitude Each Day?

I’ve discussed how gratitude can make a profound impact on one’s life, but you may be wondering how you can practice gratitude moving forward. The following tips could help you incorporate gratitude into your everyday routine, as referenced in my social media note.

Treat Yourself With Kindness

The way you talk to yourself matters, and if you find yourself caught in a negative feedback loop, you may find it hard to be grateful. Constant self-criticism isn’t helpful, especially if you’re not looking at things objectively. Be kind to yourself – and if you find yourself experiencing constant negativity, take note of this and reframe your thoughts. For example, if you attend therapy, write down your negative thoughts so your therapist can help you reframe them into more positive ones.

Remember to Exercise

I’ve mentioned before how exercise can improve your overall health and well-being, and it’s also critical to help you find a grateful mindset. If you find it hard to be grateful for the people and things you have, or you otherwise notice your mood is becoming more negative, being active may improve your way of thinking. In addition, you’ll have improved physical health and a new pastime to inspire gratitude.

Create a Wellness Toolbox

With this strategy, you put all of your recovery tools together in one place for when you need them. For instance, if you use coping activities such as a puzzle book or a daily gratitude reflection to help keep your mind off of past mistakes, place the hard copies in a box. The same goes for your notes about calming strategies, resources to turn to in a rough patch, and even contact numbers for essential members of your support crew. When you find yourself needing tools to help you on your recovery journey, they’ll all be in one place.

Keep a Daily Journal

I find that writing down your thoughts in any given situation can help you see what you’re thinking in a new light. In terms of gratitude, I encourage you to write down three things you’re grateful for every day. You don’t have to make these all distinct from each other for each entry, as you may be grateful for someone or something every day for a certain period of time. When you write down and read what you’re grateful for, you take attention off negative thoughts and onto positive ones.

The ECHO Recovery Notebooks are perfect for daily or art journaling. Shop here.

Remember to Relax

Whether you are struggling to finish a work project or spending most of your day caring for your kids, it can be far too easy to forget to make time for the things that keep you physically and mentally healthy. However, it is vital you find time for yourself. When you take time to partake in a hobby, self-care technique, or simple relaxation, you may realize just how grateful you are for your time, your life, your family, and more.

Give Back to Others

Giving back to other people is an important fundamental concept in AA; it’s what helps build and maintain a sense of community. When you’re surrounded by people who can support you and vice versa, you can find solace, strategies, resources, support, and more from the community you’ve built. Giving back by being a part of someone else’s community may help you find purpose in life, and this can also help repair relationships that were torn apart due to AUD.

Giving back to your community can also improve your sense of gratitude while keeping you humble. As tempting as it is to revel in the feeling of helping others, it’s important to avoid feeling superior to them. This is an important lesson AA teaches us, and it can help you stay grateful and gracious along your journey.

How Does Gratitude Play a Role in Your Everyday Life?

Everyone is unique with their own upbringings and challenges. Working gratitude into your everyday life will be different for every individual, but everyone can do it effectively.

If you’re in recovery from AUD, you can begin living in gratitude by asking yourself daily, “Where would I be if I wasn’t in recovery?” At this point in time, consider this question and truly think about what your life would look like if you hadn’t taken that first step in asking for help. You may have had no loved ones in contact with you. You may not have had the job you’ve been able to secure since beginning recovery. No matter how different your life looks, you can be grateful for the positive differences you’ll note when you ask yourself this question every day.

It’s important to remember that life doesn’t become easy or painless when you seek recovery. Instead, you are learning better coping mechanisms for when life does begin to become problematic. For example, while you may have been able to find love, get married, or have children since beginning recovery, you may eventually find it hard to stay away from alcohol when your family matters get overwhelming. However, it’s moments like these when you can be grateful for the progress you have made in your life by putting away the harmful substances and looking toward more fulfilling goals.

Lessons From AA

There are a few key lessons I hope you’ll keep in mind as you walk the path toward recovery. Each one stems from AA’s guiding principles, and each could make a significant impact on how you navigate recovery and your life afterward.

It’s Okay to Need Help

I’ve heard countless times how difficult it was for people to admit to needing help – and I myself have been averse to asking for help. However, AA specifically states that the first step in getting better is to admit to a higher power that you need guidance. AA doesn’t only help those who are religious, but the main idea here is that people who want recovery must be able to ask for it. As challenging as it is, this is essential in treating AUD, and you’ll be grateful you did it.

Be Responsible

Alcohol use can cause you to think more irrationally and be more aggressive toward others. When you begin recovery, you may feel guilty for the pain you’ve caused. While it’s important that you try to make amends as a part of the AA process, remember that you can only make amends for the things you’ve done. Some people may not want to resume contact with you even if you try to heal relationships, but it’s important to note that you can only control yourself, not others and their reactions. In other words, apologizing may teach you to be more grateful, regardless of whether your apology is accepted or not.

Gratitude Improves Attitude

Alcohol tends to make people feel isolated, negative, and hopeless, and you may have been there personally. Thankfully, you don’t have to live this way for the rest of your life. When you can learn to be grateful for the experiences you’ve had and the people you’ve formed bonds with, your attitude begins to improve as well. Even when you struggle, it becomes easier to remind yourself of what you do have. Rather than scolding yourself about how much time you’ve wasted on alcohol or drug use, you can remind yourself of what you have and what matters.

Rely on Prayer or Meditation

AA uses religious principles as a driving force of their message, and they always encourage prayer or meditation that considers gratitude for a power higher than ourselves. Of course, people who attend AA come from all walks of life and varying religious beliefs, but there’s something powerful about praying or meditating upon a higher power, whether that’s God, the universe, or something else. You can pray or meditate to express gratitude for getting through another day, ask for courage to get through a tough upcoming task, and more. If you pray or meditate, incorporate this into your daily routine as a way to live in gratitude.

Live With Gratitude With ECHO Recovery

ECHO Recovery is a unique recovery community dedicated to providing resources and support to those who are willing to break free from substance use and pursue a more fulfilling life. From housing support to education, we’re committed to helping individuals walk the path toward recovery while finding gratitude every day.

Resources:

Alcoholics Anonymous Cleveland District Office. (n.d.). Gratitude in early recovery. Retrieved March 11, 2024, from https://www.aacle.org/gratitude-in-early-recovery/
Alcoholics Anonymous. (n.d.). News and updates. Retrieved March 11, 2024, from https://www.aa.org/taxonomy/term/76?page=28
Kampakis, K. (2013, September). The AA way: 10 lessons we can all learn from. Retrieved March 11, 2024, from https://www.karikampakis.com/2013/09/the-aa-way-10-lessons-we-can-all-learn-from/
Haggerty, J. (n.d.). Daily reflections AA. Retrieved March 11, 2024, from https://jameshaggertyrecovery.com/blog/daily-reflections-aa/
Haggerty, J. (n.d.). Giving back AA. Retrieved March 11, 2024, from https://jameshaggertyrecovery.com/blog/giving-back-aa/
Herren Wellness. (n.d.). The importance of gratitude in recovery. Retrieved March 11, 2024, from https://herrenwellness.com/the-importance-of-gratitude-in-recovery
National Institutes of Health. (2015, August). Positive emotions and your health. News in Health. Retrieved March 11, 2024, from https://newsinhealth.nih.gov/2015/08/positive-emotions-your-health

James Haggerty

Experienced Chief Executive Addiction Recovery and Mental Health Professional

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Using the 12 Steps in Substance Use Recovery and Beyond

While the initial realization that there is a problem and the decision to seek help can be among the most difficult parts of recovery from alcohol use disorder (AUD) or substance use disorder (SUD), staying in recovery can pose its own challenges. Becoming sober can be a scary thought for someone who has relied on substances for so long, and staying sober is a process that requires guidance, support, and fortitude. That’s why the founders of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) created this iconic 12-step program. Together, The Twelve Steps of AA serve as a guide for navigating recovery as well as helping others walk a similar path.

The twelve steps of Alcoholics Anonymous can be valuable both during and after recovery. Still, it’s important to realize that these steps do indeed work, so long as you work them. Simply memorizing them without putting in any effort to work them isn’t effective; it’s important to learn how to live out these steps. Here’s a brief guide to using the twelve steps.

What Is the Basic Concept of a 12-step Program?

The basic idea of a 12-step program is to guide individuals who wish to recover from AUD or SUD via a peer support and mutual aid format. The steps outline how people can work together to find recovery from addiction, continue to resist urges and avoid triggers, and re-establish a fulfilling and healthy life. It’s important to note that these programs aren’t designed to simply help an individual find sobriety but to help them support others and repair relationships, as well.

It’s also crucial to understand that people following a 12-step program are not trying to rush through each step. A major component involves taking each day as its own challenge, one day at a time, instead of focusing on what you did in the past or what you may do tomorrow. It’s not a race to recover from SUD as soon as possible; it’s about taking the time you need to get the most out of this process.

What Are the 12 Principles of AA?

Let’s discuss each step of AA’s 12-step program individually as we evaluate the intent behind each and how you can make them as effective as possible. While some of them may seem easy enough to understand, there’s something to gain from each one that you may not have realized before. Since AA places such a focus on what you can do one day at a time for recovery, you’ll find some “just for today” quotes that can help illustrate how to navigate certain steps.

Step 1: Admit You Have No Power Over Alcohol and That It’s Made Your Life Unmanageable

For individuals who wish to become sober, admitting they need help is often one of the hardest parts of the entire process. Those of us in recovery know what it’s like to worry that others will judge us based on past decisions, but the benefits of a life in recovery are too important to continue living a life in addiction. If we can admit we need help when life becomes too much for us to handle, there will always be someone willing to help at AA. That’s because many of us now use our experience asking for help with AUD to inspire others to do the same.

“Just for today, I will allow myself to be okay with asking for help. I know this will eventually lead to a brighter future.”

Step 2: A Power Greater Than You Can Help Restore Your Life Outside of Addiction

AA was founded on faith-based principles, and this step encourages us to have faith that there is a path forward. However, it’s important to note that anything you wish can be considered a “higher power.” Whether your higher power is God, Mother Nature, the universe, Buddha, or something else, something greater than ourselves can help us see life differently and become accountable for our actions. When we learn this through 12-step programs, we can learn to accept guidance from a higher power whenever we have the urge to turn to harmful substances.

Step 3: You Must Decide to Turn Your Life Over to Your Higher Power

Once we’ve accepted that a higher power can guide us through recovery, we then officially surrender to that power. If you truly do believe that a higher power can help you through what may be your darkest point in life, this step encourages you to rely on that power. Most AAers find that this step truly is beneficial once they recognize they need help, know that a higher power can help them, and let it guide them toward a hopeful and promising future.

“Just for today, I will turn to my higher power for guidance to move toward a healthier lifestyle.”

Step 4: Make a Deep, Honest Personal Inventory

Recovery isn’t about making one decision or doing one thing that makes you stop using substances. Instead, it’s a long process that lasts the rest of our lives. For step four, it’s crucial that you look inward and truly ask yourself some questions. What behaviors and patterns have kept you in a cycle of substance use? What do you wish to gain out of life? What are your intentions? What mistakes have you made? Where do you need improvement? These questions can be different for everyone, but these should be asked before, during, and after recovery.

Step 5: Admit Your Mistakes to Your Higher Power, Yourself, and Someone Else

Along with admitting we need help, this is one of the hardest steps of this process. Being honest takes commitment, integrity, and courage. The more you can be truthful about what has happened due to your decisions, the easier it will be to accept the support of others. It’s impossible to be helped by those who care for you if you aren’t honest about what your struggles were. Don’t be ashamed to admit exactly what you’ve done wrong.

“Just for today, I will be honest about my shortcomings, as I know this can help me through my journey.”

Step 6: Become Ready to Have Your Higher Power Remove Your Defects of Character

This one is simple to understand but not easy to do. We need to accept ourselves, but also acknowledge that character defects have led us to harm ourselves and wrong others – then, we need to ready ourselves to have a higher power help us remove these defects. To do so, its crucial to not only explore these character defects and the actions or behaviors they led to, but also become humble enough to admit that there are defects and that you can’t rectify them on your own.

“Just for today, I will practice humility and acknowledge my mistakes.”

Step 7: Humbly Request That Your Higher Power Remove Character Defects

When reading this step, you’ll notice that you must do this one “humbly.” If you go into this step believing only you can cure yourself of AUD and address your character flaws, this step will be much tougher to do. Remain modest and ask a higher power for guidance as you recover from SUD or AUD. Accepting that you need help and understanding that you don’t have everything figured out can help take pressure off of you.

Step 8: Create a List of All the People You’ve Wronged and Prepare to Make Amends

Think of people who you believe hurt as a result of your past actions. For example, you may have called someone names and severed ties with them in the midst of a drunken argument or stole money from a family member. Write down a comprehensive list of these people, and begin thinking of how you can make amends. Remember that you can take your time when composing this list.

“Just for today, I will practice humility and acknowledge my mistakes.”

Step 9: You Must Make Amends With Those You’ve Harmed Unless Doing So Would Cause Further Harm

Once you’ve thought it over, reach out and attempt to make amends with those on your list. Sometimes, the other person won’t accept your amends, and it may be inadvisable to reach out to someone you’ve traumatized, but it is crucial to make direct amends as often as possible. Making amends is critical for your own growth and healing, but it may help those you’ve hurt, as well. If you can put the work in to make amends and repair relationships, you may be able to reconnect with people and potentially have their support along your journey. Finally, letting go of your negative feelings or memories can help you focus on what you can do now and in the future.

Step 10: Continue Your Ongoing Personal Inventory and Admit When You’re Wrong

This step is one of our favorites because it reflects the entire journey of recovery so well. When we can admit to others that we were wrong, we then check back with ourselves and evaluate our progress. Admitting you’re wrong is difficult, and many AAers find it hard to do to this day. However, it’s also much easier to do after you’ve gone through the 12-step program. If you can truly examine how you’re doing and continue to admit you’ve been wrong before, both recovery and life become easier.

Step 11: Improve Your Contact With Your Higher Power and Continue to Seek Its Will

Everyone has something they can contribute to the world, but it’s up to you to seek a higher power’s guidance so you know what this purpose is. This step, much like the concept of a higher power, will look different for everyone, but it can be vital in helping you understand what you’re capable of and how you can help others. How do you think the universe means for you to contribute to its balance?

Step 12: Bring the Awareness Instilled in You Via AA to others with SUD and Practice These Principles in All Parts of Your Life

Your recovery process doesn’t end at step twelve. It’s now up to us to instill hope in others who may be struggling with what we’ve gone through in the past. Not only does this keep us on a positive path forward, but it helps us connect with those who may not have the support they need. When we form these connections, this allows those people to go through the program and eventually inspire their community. This keeps going, eventually leading to several people finding recovery.

“Just for today, I will offer support to one person I know is having a hard time. I want them to know that I care for them and will help in any way I can.”

Learn More About The Framework to Recovery

Anyone can benefit from the 12 steps and AA, no matter what their higher power may be and no matter their substance of choice. AA asks us to live out these principles throughout all phases of our lives, and we continue to practice them throughout lifelong recovery.

Need more information about 12-step programs like AA? Echo Recovery is a nonprofit education and recovery support organization committed to helping those seeking treatment for SUD. We know 12-step programs can be difficult to grasp at first, especially if you’re not accustomed to the thought of a higher power in your life. We hope this brief guide to the twelve steps has helped you determine how you could use these steps for every facet of your life – even if you need to view them in a different way. If you take each step seriously and truly dedicate yourself to healing, life without substances can become much more promising.

Contact us today to learn more about what we do and how we can help. Whether you’re looking to start your recovery journey or are ready to begin a 12-step program, remember to stay strong.

You’ve got this,

Jim

Resources :

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James Haggerty

Experienced Chief Executive Addiction Recovery and Mental Health Professional

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Combating Loneliness in Recovery

With how pervasive the internet and social media are, it can be easy to assume that we’re more connected than ever before. These tools can make you feel like you have the world at your fingertips; after all, we can get answers to questions in mere seconds as we connect with people the world over. The web is purported to make finding new communities easy, as people are able to gain access to relationships with a number of people they’ve never met.

Unfortunately, I’ve found that the opposite is true – and this phenomenon, along with other issues, can make addiction and recovery extremely lonely. Join me as I explore the loneliness of recovery

Why Are We So Lonely in the Information Age?

While the internet ensures that we’re connected on a basic level, the problem is that these relationships are all parasocial. Unfortunately, far too many of us are not building real relationships with real people. We’re only able to view others through the lens they choose. As a result, as the predominance of social media rises, our ability to connect and build healthy relationships actually decreases.

This leaves us lonelier than ever before. When people get attached to these social media sites and spend so much time scrolling rather than actually interacting with other human beings, they can actually become addicted to these parasocial relationships. At the same time, feelings of loneliness grow. That’s because parasocial relationships can leave most people feeling unfulfilled. For some, turning to substances can seem like a convenient way to ease the feelings of loneliness or even as a way to jumpstart social connections that are only built on substance use.

The Relationship Between Loneliness and Addiction

The 2020 Pandemic forced much of the world into isolation, taking away many of the opportunities for genuine social interactions. From workplace relationships to friendships and social relationships all the way to familial relationships, interactions were severely limited. Most people started spending less time in the presence of others and much more time interacting through a screen.

As discussed earlier, an increase in isolation and dependence on parasocial relationships can increase loneliness. One early study discussed the necessity of psychological intervention and mental health care during disasters of all kinds, and COVID-19 was no exception. Additionally, one study shows that the greater the feelings of isolation and loneliness, the greater the impact on a person’s mental health. Isolation leads to people feeling more lonely, and loneliness can lead to substance use.

While substances are frequently used to combat difficult situations or feelings, they may also be used to cope with feelings of loneliness as an avoidance tactic. So, rather than facing feelings of loneliness and reaching out for help, a person may turn to the comfort of drugs or alcohol to combat these issues. In the same way that people suffering from anxiety or depression may use substances to numb or avoid these feelings rather than heal them, substances are often used to prevent feelings of isolation and loneliness.

Worse, substance use can itself cause severe isolation. Often, as the person tries to hide substance use from loved ones or minimize the way it has affected their life, they can fall deeper into substance use. People suffering from substance use disorder, or SUD, can eventually cause serious damage to their relationships, potentially losing them altogether. The loss of these relationships can lead to further isolation. This is a vicious cycle, with SUD fueling loneliness and loneliness continuing to fuel SUD.

Why Is Sobriety So Lonely?

If you’re currently in recovery, you likely know the pain of isolation in the depths of substance use disorder. However, while the correlation between SUD and loneliness is clear, you may not have recognized that there can be a significant risk of loneliness in recovery, too. This can be for a number of reasons. Those suffering from an SUD turn to substances to combat feelings of loneliness, and taking away these substances can make a person feel more isolated.

In addition to this, sobriety removes you from the relationships you had while actively using. Losing that community and those relationships can feel incredibly daunting. Think about the reality of beginning recovery: when you began your journey toward sobriety, you likely had to leave behind a small community of other substance users you had been a part of. Frequently, too, people suffering from SUD surround themselves with others who enable their behaviors or partake in the behavior alongside them. Worse, if you’ve isolated yourself from healthy relationships, you may be feeling lost regarding how to reconnect with those people – and the world – now that you’re in recovery.

For many, sobriety can feel like completely starting over, which can be scary.

How Do You Deal With Loneliness in Recovery?

The journey of recovery requires leaving the world of substance use behind, including any relationships that may hinder your progress. If you’ve damaged your previous relationships, it can take significant work to gain those back. Fortunately, there are ways that you can deal with loneliness while you’re working on recovery.

Acceptance

First, it’s important to accept the things you’ve done rather than hide from them. The thing that drove you to use substances in the first place – avoidance – only exacerbated SUD. It’s important that you face what you’ve done in the past, as well as your current situation, and take accountability. Accepting and remaining accountable for your actions can help you come to terms with the issues and help you heal from them.

Regular Meetings

No matter what recovery community you join, it’s important that you attend some kind of meeting or group aimed at helping you stay on the road to recovery. Attending regular meetings gives you a place to be social, allows you to connect with others, and helps you build new relationships with people who share the same goals as you. This is crucial, as these people know what you’re going through because they’re going through it, too. You can relate to each other’s stories, and you can work through the toughest parts together.

These solid connections help you combat loneliness and give you a new community. Your community can also help to hold you accountable during critical moments of your journey. Having people to lean on when you’re struggling helps you feel less alone, and when you know others can empathize with your situation, it can make it easier for you to continue on your path to sobriety.

Healing Relationships

As mentioned, people with SUD often damage close relationships when they’re trying to hide their struggle. Whether they’re family, close friends, or even working relationships, losing these connections can be incredibly damaging for people working toward recovery.

These relationships won’t heal overnight, but it’s important to make attempts to rekindle the relationship, beginning by apologizing and taking ownership of the situation. While this might not work right away, it’s definitely a good place to begin the healing process. These relationships can help you continue to hold yourself accountable throughout your recovery journey.

Find New Hobbies

Finding interests outside of substance use can help you deal with issues of loneliness in more than one way. From reading groups or clubs to sports and exercise, new hobbies give you access to new communities and help build relationships with new people. This helps fight loneliness and gives you different things to learn and focus on that aren’t feelings of isolation. It can also give you a sense of belonging and purpose.

Avoid Social Media

While avoiding social media altogether may be incredibly difficult, it’s important to limit the amount of time you spend on social media. Because social media and parasocial relationships keep you from building real relationships, it can also help to drive feelings of isolation and loneliness. This is exactly what you want to fight against in recovery.

So, What Is the Best Way To Overcome Loneliness?

As you can see, there are a lot of different tactics that a person can use in order to overcome loneliness. Still, this is an important part of the healing process. The most important things to keep in mind are accepting where you’ve been and where you are and finding a sense of meaning in everyday life.

As mentioned, acceptance is so important because it allows you to acknowledge any mistakes you’ve made in your past and hold yourself accountable for those actions. It also allows you to accept who you are now and that each step is a step forward. Similarly, finding a sense of meaning helps give you tools to fight against loneliness and SUD. This can be things like new hobbies, a new career, education, and much more. What’s important is that you have something to strive towards rather than letting SUD regain control of your life.

What Does the Big Book Say About Loneliness?

Last, it’s important to consider what one of the world’s most crucial resources for recovery has to say about loneliness. The Big Book is the book that’s used to guide Alcoholics Anonymous, and it has many things to say about loneliness.

In step 5, people take accountability for their past actions and any wrongs they have committed. One thing the Big Book says about loneliness during step 5 is that self-pity and alcoholism can lead to immense feelings of loneliness. This loneliness can damage your path to sobriety by driving you back to the SUD.

By allowing your substance use to diminish, you allow your loneliness to diminish, and you have a better chance to heal from your struggles. Leaving loneliness behind helps you be surrounded by people who care about you and lets you experience fellowship in a healthy and loving way.

When you’re working towards sobriety while connected to a community of people who are also on their own sobriety journeys, you’re never truly alone. It’s important to remain a part of this community to help you banish feelings of loneliness. Leaving this feeling behind helps you grow closer to your goal of long-term recovery.

The Path to Recovery

Recovery can be an incredibly difficult and lonely journey. All too often, people working towards sobriety find themselves working hard to fight off heavy feelings of loneliness. While everyone’s journey and struggle is unique, loneliness is a uniting factor most people in recovery can share. This can help you build relationships with others who may be suffering.

There are many different paths to recovery; however, one thing is clear: leaving behind loneliness is vital to the success of the recovery journey. While loneliness helps to drive isolation, and these two things work together to keep the cycle of addiction going, you don’t have to feel alone. When you build new relationships and gain new recovery tools, recovery can be within your grasp. In recovery, you’re never truly alone; with a strong community and a sense of purpose, recovery is within your grasp.

Keep going,

Jim

P.S. If you need help navigating your journey to recovery, contact me for help. I’m here to help you or your loved one find the right addiction treatment program for your unique needs. Reach out if you are struggling.

Resources:

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James Haggerty

Experienced Chief Executive Addiction Recovery and Mental Health Professional

jameshaggertyrecovery.com

Top Foods for Alcohol Recovery: Nourishing Your Body On the Path to Wellness

Taking the first step and admitting you need help addressing your alcohol use can be the most difficult, most critical decision you’ll ever make. It’s common to feel defeated in the face of the many physical and mental health issues caused by excessive alcohol use, but it’s not too late to forge a path forward. I made this difficult decision myself many years ago, and today, I continue to encourage others to move away from alcohol use and toward healthier choices.

At ECHO Recovery, I’ve found great value in the education and recovery support we provide for those who are struggling with substance use disorder (SUD), including alcohol use disorder (AUD). While I know how challenging it can be to face the ravages alcohol has wreaked on your mind and body – and how tempting it can seem to turn back to alcohol to manage these daily struggles – there are far better answers.

With careful planning and attention to your diet and lifestyle, you can address your physical needs, stay in recovery, and go on to live a meaningful life.

Today, I’d like to discuss a few key foods that aid in alcohol recovery that you can begin eating to improve your recovery journey.

What Does Alcohol Do to the Body?

To determine which foods are best for alcohol recovery – and understand why they’re so helpful – it’s critical to learn more about what alcohol really does to the body.

Alcohol can not only alter your brain chemistry, but it can negatively affect your nutrition as well. In fact, alcohol is known to prevent the body from absorbing and using the nutrients gained from foods. Without these key nutrients, you not only risk succumbing to various physical ailments, but you can also struggle to think clearly and act quickly. Worse, even if you begin an exercise regimen, this phenomenon can limit your muscle growth, making exercising more complex and less effective.

Certain health consequences become more likely with continued alcohol use, and people who consume alcohol excessively or daily are most susceptible to the following conditions.

Liver Damage

Your liver is responsible for filtering waste from your body and storing sugar that your body uses as energy. If you drink heavily, your liver will begin to struggle to keep functioning as normal. Not only can you suffer from excruciating pain, but you also risk experiencing other symptoms of liver damage, like fever, nausea, intestinal bleeding, and even cancer.

Cirrhosis

Cirrhosis is an advanced form of liver damage commonly caused by excessive alcohol consumption over a long period of time, leading to healthy liver cells being replaced by scar tissue. With years of constant damage and scarring, the liver becomes swollen, stiff, and incredibly weak, meaning it can no longer carry out its important functions. Cirrhosis is unfortunately irreversible, though you can slow its progress by ceasing alcohol consumption and eating an anti-inflammatory diet.

Inflammation

Inflammation primarily occurs when your body attempts to defend itself from diseases, but alcohol use can also be a source of inflammation. The more alcohol you consume, the more regularly your body is in a state of inflammation, which can cause issues with the liver, brain, intestines, and more. Inflammation can be especially impactful in the intestines, as the harmful components of alcohol can leak from the organ, which becomes weaker as drinking continues. Worse, the immune system will eventually struggle to fight off the resulting infections.

Nutritional Deficiencies

Because alcohol can slow down or even stop the absorption of nutrients, you can expect to deal with nutritional deficiencies if you continue to drink heavily. For example, you may lack adequate levels of vitamin A in your system, which can lead to vision impairment and dry skin. Some people may also drink excessively while eating very little, which leads to multiple nutrient deficiencies that are tough to correct.

Top Five Foods for Recovering Alcoholics

Nutrition for alcohol recovery is essential to healing both physically and mentally. Of course, the first step is making the decision to seek help, at which time you will go through a detox process to rid your system of harmful substances. However, detox often doesn’t fully address the foods and nutrients you’ll need on your recovery journey. Often, too, you’ll receive the best in nutrition while in a treatment program, but I’ve seen many people return from treatment and then struggle to maintain a healthy diet suitable for alcohol recovery.

While I am not a nutritionist myself, there are certain foods research has demonstrated to effectively support the alcohol recovery process through all stages of recovery. These top five foods that aid in alcohol recovery are foods to prioritize as you return to physical and mental wellness.

1. Cruciferous Vegetables

Cruciferous vegetables include leafy greens such as spinach, broccoli, and kale. These vegetables are full of nutrients commonly depleted during heavy alcohol use, such as potassium, vitamin A, and calcium. These veggies also contain a lot of water, which can help keep you from becoming dehydrated. Finally, the substantial amounts of fiber in cruciferous vegetables can keep you regular, improve your gut health, and help you regulate your blood sugar levels.

2. Shellfish

Shellfish is known for including a fair amount of zinc, omega-3 fatty acids, and iron, all minerals and nutrients that aren’t adequately absorbed by the body during heavy alcohol use. For example, without zinc, you can experience appetite loss, rough skin, and mental lethargy, and iron is responsible for helping red blood cells carry oxygen to and from your body’s organs. Shellfish can help you replenish these minerals, helping your body return to normal functioning.

3. Sunflower Seeds and Nutritional Yeast

Sunflower seeds are a source of protein that can not only boost your energy levels in a pinch but can also raise your dopamine, or “feel-good” hormone levels. Rather than turning to alcohol to get through a tough moment, chew some sunflower seeds instead – they contain the nutrients needed to help you feel good without harming your body and can be an excellent way to cope with the situation at hand.

Similarly, nutritional yeast contains many B vitamins that your body is likely missing as a result of alcohol use. Incorporating nutritional yeast into your diet is easy, as it makes a great savory topping or a thickener in soups, smoothies, and sauces. Nutritional yeast can replenish B vitamins and keep your body going without much fuss.

4. Fish and Omega-3 Fatty Acids

Fish contains many healthy nutrients, prime among them omega-3 fatty acids and vitamin D. Both are crucial for keeping you feeling healthy and helping you recover from damage and inflammation. Omega-3 fatty acids specifically are among the best nutrients for fighting inflammation caused by alcohol. Look for meaty, fatty fish like salmon, which contain high levels of omega-3s and are also packed with a fair amount of protein.

5. Large Meal Salads

Eating salads filled with a variety of cruciferous and non cruciferous vegetables and topped with sunflower seeds, salmon, or more can improve your hydration and boost your nutrient intake. Just be sure to mix your greens and include a hard-boiled egg, as eggs, raw spinach, and cabbage contain high levels of L-glutamine, a protein building block (amino acid) thought to help reduce alcohol cravings and improve muscle building. Eating at least one salad a day with a variety of ingredients can help you stay away from alcohol while replenishing your nutrient levels.

Specific Nutrients to Look Out For

While whole foods are crucial for addressing your dietary needs and providing nutritional support for recovering from alcoholism, it is often necessary to supplement a healthy diet so you can address the most critical nutrients. These minerals, vitamins, and supplements are the ones we recommend focusing on first.

Vitamin C

Vitamin C is found in most fruits and can help repair liver damage and increase glutathione levels. Glutathione is an antioxidant that accelerates liver repair, and vitamin C is essential for maintaining adequate levels. Eat plenty of fruits and vegetables, including citrus fruits, strawberries, bell peppers, tomatoes, and cruciferous vegetables, and consider taking a vitamin C supplement.

Milk Thistle

Milk thistle is essential for those with cirrhosis and alcohol-induced fatty liver. It can improve liver function and protect the liver from various toxins. While more research is needed to see if it can also aid those with cancer, some studies have noted its potential in this area. Milk thistle supplements are available in most pharmacies.

Cysteine and Glycine

Both cysteine and glycine are amino acids, which are the building blocks of proteins. By boosting levels of cysteine in your body, you can regain your strength and keep your body protected from certain illnesses. Whole grains, sunflower seeds, legumes, yogurt, and poultry are known to contain cysteine, or you can look for a supplement (more on this below).

Glycine is also used to create protein, helping you replenish your ability to strengthen your muscles. Most meats contain adequate levels of glycine, but it can also be found as a powder for supplementation. Adequate glycine levels can help you can feel fuller, stronger, and more nourished.

N-Acetyl Cysteine

N-acetyl cysteine (NAC) is the supplemental form of cysteine especially useful for boosting antioxidants in your body and improving brain function. Both are essential after long periods of alcohol consumption. Look for supplements containing NAC if you are having trouble consuming enough whole foods containing cysteine.

Glutamine

Glutamine should be the most abundant amino acid in the body, but you can experience glutamine depletion if you use alcohol heavily for an extended period of time and/or neglect proper nutrition during this time. Increasing your glutamine intake during early recovery can help you suppress your cravings while also keeping your nausea, vomiting, and diarrhea under control. Glutamine is also good for supporting proper gut health, so get plenty of meats, cheese like ricotta or cottage cheese, yogurt, milk, and cruciferous veggies like spinach and cabbage. Alternatively, look for a glutamine supplement.

Zinc

As previously mentioned, insufficient amounts of zinc can negatively impact your skin and appetite and can also reduce your sex drive. Zinc can help clear alcohol-related toxins from your body while also keeping your thyroid health in great shape. Consider a zinc supplement, or eat plenty of shellfish, beef and pork, oats, cashews, and chickpeas.

Other Effective Tips for Alcohol Recovery

Now that you know several effective supplements and nourishing foods for alcohol rehab to choose from, it’s important to learn about the best ways to consume them. Here are some tips I’ve found effective for recovery:

Consider Intermittent or Periodic Fasting

One critical nutrition and recovery tip is to consider not only what you’re eating, but also how and when. Intermittent fasting means you’ll only eat one or two meals a day, restricting these meals to certain time periods. This can be an effective strategy to promote autophagy. Autophagy is a bodily process that helps clean up damaged proteins throughout your body and replaces them with healthy amino acids.

Periodic fasting, which consists of fasting for 24-hour periods a couple of times during each week, can mean autophagy occurs at around the 18-hour mark. Periodic fasting also speeds up the process of restoring amino acids. If this is a concern for you, consider periodic fasting if intermittent fasting isn’t helping you as quickly as you’d like.

Try Kombucha

Another strategy to consider is the use of kombucha tea to stand in and provide relaxation during times you’d normally desire alcohol. Kombucha is a fizzy, fermented tea created with yeast and bacteria cultures that can help you improve your gut health. While the fermentation creates a bit of alcohol in kombucha tea, it’s incredibly small, under 0.5%. It’s recommended to use tea that’s low in sugar and proceed with caution with any beer or wine stand-in.

Improve Your Recovery Journey Today

I know firsthand how difficult it can be to stay on the path toward recovery, especially when substances like alcohol have been an integral part of your daily routine. That’s what makes proper nutrition for alcohol recovery so crucial – by including these foods and nutrients in your diet, you can support your overall healing and begin addressing your physical and mental well-being. Use these tips, along with a consultation with your personal healthcare provider or dietician for more personalized guidance on this matter.

If you’re still considering seeking help for your alcohol use disorder, ECHO Recovery is here for you. Contact us to discuss recovery, find resources in your area, and learn more about how recovery can change your life. Cheers to a brighter and more hopeful future!

Resources:

UC San Diego Health Services. (n.d.). Nutrition and Endurance.
https://studenthealth.ucsd.edu/resources/health-topics/alcohol-drugs/nutrition-endurance.html
National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism. (n.d.). Alcohol’s Effects on the Body.
https://www.niaaa.nih.gov/alcohols-effects-health/alcohols-effects-body
Johns Hopkins Medicine. (n.d.). Alcohol-Induced Liver Disease.
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Stanford Health Care. (n.d.). Alcoholic Cirrhosis.
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Healthline. (n.d.). N-acetylcysteine (NAC): Benefits, Side Effects and Uses.
https://www.healthline.com/nutrition/nac-benefits

James Haggerty

Experienced Chief Executive Addiction Recovery and Mental Health Professional

jameshaggertyrecovery.com

Supporting Those in Sober Housing

People in recovery from substance use disorder (SUD) frequently develop the need to find alternative housing – and for a number of reasons. For example, some people who are homeless find themselves relying on alcohol or drugs to cope with their struggles and need a safe place to continue their recovery. Others find that their previous living situations are not conducive to recovery. For these people and many others, sober housing can be crucial for providing security, avoiding relapse, finding community, and developing healthier methods of managing stress.

While the importance of sober housing is more accepted than ever before, organizations that offer sober housing cannot do it alone. Many individuals who are looking to treat their SUD don’t have the financial means to do so, while others may not have the resources available to find sober housing. Still others may not have access to sober housing options in their local communities. However, all individuals completing treatment need a place to practice the principles of recovery and continue to care for themselves in a safe, secure place.

What Is Sober Housing?

While sober housing can take many forms, the most important component is that sober housing allows people with SUD a safe place to live while in early recovery. Sober living arrangements are developed specifically for those with SUD and are designed to be a safe and healthy environment free from many common triggers. Sober housing often employs staff trained to empower residents to make changes and improve their lives.

As residents address their SUD and other mental health issues, recovery housing can provide a supportive environment that makes navigating these challenges easier. In this way, sober housing arrangements can prove to be a cost-effective and reliable resource for maintaining recovery, especially when compared to ongoing residential treatment. In addition, another advantage sober living environments have is that they serve as a valid transition from treatment to the individual’s intended living situation – instead of a cold or institutional setting, sober housing tends to look like private residences in order to maintain the feeling of “home.”

How Does Sober Housing Work?

While sober housing options are not uniform, sober housing generally uses a tiered system to determine what types of resources patients need. Some people with SUD need more support and treatment options than others, and these homes may have these options organized over a few various levels. Depending on the level, different rules may be in place.

For those who intend to live in a sober home while recovering from SUD, there are certain ground rules that must be followed and mandatory activities that must be completed each day.

These rules often include things like:

All residents must pay rent on time.
Residents must attend individual and group therapy
Residents may not have intoxicating substances in any capacity. (Some homes will allow prescription medications.)
Residents must attend house meetings.
Residents must contribute to the running of the household, including cleaning, laundry, maintenance, and other duties.

Most sober houses are overseen by people who are in recovery themselves and are occupied entirely by people who have had their own struggles with substance use disorder. That way, nobody needs to fear social isolation on the recovery journey; sober housing arrangements enable people to support one another while walking the path toward recovery.

The Housing First Model

A unique approach to sober housing, known as Housing First, relies on finding permanent housing for people with SUD before seeking treatment. In this model, there are no prerequisites for becoming sober. This model allows people to make progress on their mental health disorders and SUD both before and during treatment.

The main idea behind this model is that people who have stable housing are more willing to accept treatment and more able to make significant progress. Housing First believes in reducing harm rather than preaching abstinence only. Programs in this model also vary, and staff at these homes will monitor residents daily and as needed.

Why Is Sober Housing So Important?

When people have personal struggles they feel are too difficult to manage on their own, they may turn to substance use in an effort to address them in another way. However, substance use only aggravates the problem and makes the daily routine more challenging. Some people experience difficulty maintaining the employment and personal relationships necessary to manage housing on their own. While treatment can help them cease substance use, it is often difficult for people to maintain the resources necessary to return home.

In addition, many individuals complete treatment only to be thrust into the same environment as they occupied before. They may have been surrounded by other people who used substances or other reminders of substance use. Returning to that environment is, unfortunately, conducive to relapse.

Other people may not be welcome in the home they occupied before recovery or may be unable to continue to afford living there. Unfortunately, becoming homeless can lead to continued substance use disorder issues. Roughly 35% of homeless individuals have a substance use disorder. While we recommend dialing 211 or contacting the National Alliance to End Homelessness for those experiencing homelessness during recovery, proper funding for sober housing can help prevent homelessness for many of these individuals.

Sober Housing Arrangements Work

When given the support and care they need to continue to give attention to the principles of recovery, people can go on to live healthy, fulfilling lives. Sober housing is essential in helping people maintain an environment conducive to creating a meaningful future. Taking the first step in seeking help can be daunting for many, and the prospect of returning to or staying in an unsafe or triggering environment can actually derail recovery. If someone truly does want help, it’s crucial to find an environment that contributes to recovery rather than taking away from it.

Research shows that sober housing programs can improve the overall well-being of residents with SUD. People who lived in sober housing arrangements maintained recovery longer than those who did not. While this is promising, there is a shortage of affordable sober housing in the nation. For every 100 low-income households, there are only about 29 available housing options available.

This is a key indicator that policy must be adapted to make housing more affordable for those with SUD. In other words, while statistics show promise, more work must be done. This is where the efforts championed by the ECHO Foundation’s Sober Housing Initiative come in.

How Much Does Sober Housing Cost?

Sober housing rates can vary widely depending on a variety of factors. While there is no unified cost structure for sober housing, there are some ways to assess the cost.

Factors may include:

Average rent in the local area
Mortgage cost
State funding and allowances
Sober housing programming considerations

For example, we’ve heard reports of cheap sober housing costs at about $400 a month, but there’s no guarantee the cost will be this low. In fact, the average sober housing rate significantly exceeds this amount in most states. For more comfortably furnished homes that include other activities and services, sober housing rent can exceed $10,000 per month and can fluctuate depending on how many people reside in the home to contribute.

Why Do Those in Sober Housing Need Monetary Support?

Affordable housing is an issue for individuals in many groups, but it is especially difficult to find affordable housing that supports sobriety. For all the reasons listed above, people with SUD depend on sober housing to maintain recovery before, during, or after SUD treatment. So, what barriers are in place that are preventing people from accessing sober housing?

People Can’t Afford It Alone

While housing programs for people with SUD have been shown to be effective, free programs are rare. Many people in recovery are experiencing financial issues, job loss, legal troubles, lack of transportation, and more, which can cause difficulty paying for sober housing. By donating to a sober housing initiative, you can help ensure that people in recovery have the housing support they need to continue practicing the principles of recovery.

Government Programs May Not Pay

While there are federal and state healthcare programs in place, they often don’t cover many recovery necessities. Medicaid and Medicare, for example, won’t always cover the costs of sober housing.

There are certain conditions people must meet to qualify, including:

Age restrictions
Income restrictions
Restrictions from the state of residence

The same can be said for other social services, depending on the situation. In Maryland, where our headquarters are located, the Department of Housing and Community Development has enacted programs that assist low-income families and offer foreclosure protection. However, residents must meet specific requirements to qualify.

Policy Changes Are Necessary

While there is research that shows the efficacy of sober housing programs, policymakers haven’t made adjustments. Unfortunately, addressing housing issues takes time and careful planning, and there are currently thousands of people in need of sober housing as a recovery tool. We can’t wait for others to act; donations are the best way to ensure people can access affordable sober housing.

How Can I Help Those in Sober Housing Programs?

If you’re ready to help people with SUD make the recovery journey more sustainable, it’s important to consider the following steps.

Be Patient and Supportive

People who have made the decision to seek help with SUD have made one of the most difficult and influential decisions in their lives. It can be a stressful time for them, and they may be anxious regarding what will happen in the future. If you know someone who is in need of a sober housing program, listen to their concerns and be patient. Offer your patience and emotional support; even listening to someone share their story can make a significant difference in their life.

Volunteer

Some sober housing programs may offer volunteer opportunities, but this isn’t guaranteed. Volunteering can help you make connections, especially if you’re in recovery yourself, which will also allow you to spread the word about the impact of sober housing. Whether you’re participating in a community event or simply contributing to a household item drive, you can make an impact on the lives of those in recovery.

Support the Recovery Process

If you have a loved one looking for a sober housing arrangement, it’s highly advised you participate in the recovery process as much as they wish. Recovery is a lifelong process, and your support is valuable as they complete treatment and re-enter the world. If you’re engaged with moving forward from SUD, you’ll be prepared to help when they feel overwhelmed.

Make a Financial Donation

Making a financial donation to a sober housing initiative like the ECHO Foundation Sober Housing Initiative is the simplest, most effective way to help people afford safe, sober housing. Your contributions can help provide sober housing scholarships for people with SUD, as well as programming like art therapy and more. Relieving this financial stress can not only ensure safe housing for others but remove a major factor that can contribute to relapse.

Donate to Our Sober Housing Initiative Today

ECHO Recovery created the ECHO Foundation Sober Housing Initiative, which is a program meant to offer financial assistance to those in recovery. We are not a sober housing facility, nor do we offer case management, but we offer assistance to those who need help finding and funding safe, sober housing.

Our mission is to help keep people on the path toward recovery, and we need your help to do it. Consider donating to our initiative today. Housing needs for people with substance use disorder must be met to prevent relapse and ensure proper care. Your donations can help support those who need sober housing to meet these needs. Thank you for your support.

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James Haggerty

Experienced Chief Executive Addiction Recovery and Mental Health Professional

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Techniques for Coping with Triggers

Dealing with triggers in recovery can feel like an ongoing battle – and that’s because, in large part, it is. Triggers are a lasting, repetitive reminder of your substance use and are unique to you and your situation. They can also look different for each individual and could be a person, place, situation, or even an object. Understanding how to handle addiction triggers can help you prepare for when you find yourself in a triggering situation, and the coping skills that work best for you can help you stay on your path to sobriety.

Handling triggers can be difficult at any stage of recovery. What is most important is identifying your unique triggers and learning to cope with them in a way that is healthy and positive. As someone on a lifelong sobriety journey, I can attest to moments where triggers still pop into my life. Our ability to overcome and stay focused minimizes the impact these triggers can have.

In this post, I will highlight some of the techniques that have worked not only for myself but others as they continue on in their own recovery journey. I hope they can help you as well!

What Are Triggers?

Psychologically speaking, triggers are any sort of stimulus that can cause the urge to use a substance to resurface. Triggers can come in many different forms depending on you and your experiences. As mentioned, they can be people, places, objects, or even sights and sounds that remind you of intense or overwhelming emotions and your past substance use. They can be a reminder of instances where substances ruled your life or of a past trauma that once led you to use substances.

When faced with these triggers, you are at risk of both emotional and physical consequences, like breaking down or trying to cope with the trigger in a way that is counterproductive to the recovery journey. For someone who once used alcohol as a coping mechanism, this could be as simple as walking past a bar they used to frequent, a friend who would party with them, or even a holiday or celebration where drinking is normalized. Triggers are dangerous because they can increase the risk of relapse if not appropriately addressed.

Types of Triggers

While triggers exist in many forms, there are two main types: external and internal. External triggers are associated with objects, people, places, sights, sounds, activities, and memories that bring back certain feelings or cravings associated with past substance use. Many external triggers can be avoided, such as taking a different route to work if it brings you past a bar or hangout spot. It is often best to learn to face those triggers and to be prepared for the emotions or cravings external triggers can create.

Internal triggers are experienced in the form of emotions and thoughts and can be difficult to cope with. Emotions can be at an all-time high during recovery, especially in the early stages when you once again begin experiencing the emotions you’ve been stifling with substance use, along with a host of new ones. You may feel angry, guilty, or shameful about past choices, and these intrusive, negative thoughts can deter the recovery process. Having a plan of action and developing coping techniques can help prevent internal triggers from compromising your success.

Internal and external triggers you may experience include:

Extreme emotional states
Depression and anxiety
Loss of control
Social settings
Feeling unsafe

Certain locations
Trauma
Feelings of being judged or attacked
News stories
Memories

Keep in mind that each person’s potential triggers are unique. They can and do happen to everyone, no matter how long they have been on the path toward recovery, which is why a significant component of recovery is to handle each trigger as it comes. Burying your feelings or coping in a negative manner can increase your risk of relapse, while positive coping techniques can help you overcome any obstacles you may face.

Triggers, Healthy Coping Skills, and Addiction Recovery

Fortunately, while there are several ways you may experience a trigger, there are also several ways you can positively cope with those triggers. Since triggers are so varied and individualized, self-awareness is vital in the recovery journey.

Substance use often begins when someone has the desire to numb an emotional response to a trauma trigger. That’s why treatment and recovery are so focused on helping people develop the ability to look within and face some of the hardest aspects of their lives without the crutch of substance use. As you move forward in recovery, working to identify triggers that lead to certain behaviors is essential to managing them effectively.

Here are some essential practices to employ to begin identifying and managing triggers.

Honesty

The ability to be honest can be difficult for individuals in recovery because substance use and dishonesty often go hand-in-hand. We may lie to friends, family, coworkers, and even ourselves about the severity of the situation. In time, lying begins to seem much easier than telling the truth, revealing your inner self, and addressing the root of the issue, which is a key reason addiction can be so isolating. Reestablishing the ability to truly be honest with yourself and others is a great step to coping with triggers.

Be honest with yourself about what triggers you. Some triggers can be especially hard to face, but attempting to ignore them can lead to relapse and more pain. It can be difficult at first, and you’ll likely have some tough truths to face, but over time you’ll learn to show yourself some grace and compassion. In addition to being honest with yourself, you should strive to be honest with others. This is especially important when you’re in situations where you feel anxiety, depression, guilt, anger, or anything that feels like a potential trigger – being honest about your feelings can help others help you manage the situation.

Mindfulness

Practicing mindfulness in recovery helps you develop the ability to stop, reflect, and choose how you want to react by shifting your focus inward. It’s important to recognize that the body-mind connection can be rewarding or harmful, given the circumstances. For example, if you are someone prone to dwell on stressors, these feelings can manifest in muscle pain, heart strain, and other physical complications. However, practicing mindfulness can help your inward focus become positive, and you can find your muscles relaxing, stress levels diminishing, and a renewed sense of clarity toward the trigger.

Mindfulness can take practice, but it can be a valuable tool when handling triggers. Relaxing the mind and body in the moment can begin by taking slow, deep breaths. Controlled breathing gives you something that you can control and focus on, slowing the heart rate and allowing you to process your thoughts. You can also use mindfulness practices throughout your day, including various meditation techniques, soothing music, or a warm bath to aid in relaxation. Yoga and outdoor activities are also great ways to step away from the stresses of life and focus inward.

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Journaling

Journaling can be a wonderful tool for discovering and overcoming various triggers. A journal provides a safe space where you can be open and honest without fear of judgment or criticism. You can also look back and see the growth you’ve achieved. This can be a valuable practice on days when nothing seems to be going right.

How you use your journal is up to you. You may simply want to write about your day, use your journal as a place to keep a list of moments that brought you joy, or even construct a gratitude list. There are also recovery-specific journals available that include inspirational quotes and reminders to help you on your path. These journals may provide various prompts or inspirational stories to aid your recovery journey.

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Support System

Substance use disorder can be extremely isolating. In the depths of substance use, you may have cut yourself off from friends and family, or they may have distanced themselves from you. However, when you choose recovery, you must not only rebuild the positive relationships damaged by SUD but also end relationships with people who could be a potential trigger.

Developing a healthy support network is vital to recovery. Surrounding yourself with people who support your decision to be sober and building connections with others who are choosing to live life without drugs or alcohol is an essential way to ensure you have the support you need when triggers occur. While you don’t necessarily need to cut yourself off from friends and family who aren’t sober, the less you are put in tempting situations, the better chance you have of staying in recovery. Like-minded individuals will want to participate in activities that are healthy for you both.

It’s also important to construct your support network of people you know you can be honest with. These people can help keep you accountable, encourage your recovery, and share their experiences as well. Surrounding yourself with positive, honest people helps to minimize the triggers you may face and gives you the security that when triggers do occur, there’s someone you can turn to.

Therapy

Therapy is an essential step to learning to identify and manage your triggers. A therapist can help you identify triggers and walk you through various methods that can help you overcome those triggers. Practices like cognitive behavioral therapy, for example, enable you to rebuild the brain pathways and negative thoughts that lead from triggers to unhealthy responses.

Whether individual, group, or family therapy, you’ll have a safe space for an honest exploration of what you are thinking and feeling. Family sessions are a fantastic way to rebuild relationships and learn to be supportive of one another when triggers arise. Group therapy can provide an important reminder that you are not alone on your path to recovery – there are others who are experiencing the same triggers, and all can benefit from sharing coping techniques.

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Exercise

Exercise can serve as a healthy outlet for the emotions that often arise from cravings and other triggers. Working out can also add structure to your day, giving you something to look forward to. In addition, exercise can help your body begin recovering from the negative physical effects of prolonged substance use. Exercise is a great way to practice focusing on the task at hand, and you’ll feel good for hours afterward.

There is no form of exercise superior to another when it comes to developing a healthy coping mechanism. Whether you like biking, dancing, hiking, yoga, Pilates, or anything in between, what matters most is the effort and consistency you put into it. We suggest participating in group workouts so you can begin forming positive social connections.

Nutrition

Substance use disorder often coincides with poor nutrition or even malnourishment. Drugs and alcohol deprive the body of the essential nutrients it needs to function properly and can also increase or decrease appetite, which can snowball into further health concerns. When you aren’t fueling your body as you should, you can develop sleeping issues, headaches, and depleted energy. You may also find yourself feeling short-tempered, on edge, and emotionally unstable. When you are already struggling with regulating emotions, this can feel overwhelming.

The best way to keep your body feeling good and your mind feeling focused is to eat a healthy, nutritious diet. Hydration is another important aspect of nutrition and is vital for everyday health and overall happiness. With proper nutrition in hand, you can confront triggers and focus on developing a positive response.

Activities

One of the most rewarding aspects of recovery is rediscovering your passions and finding new things that bring you joy. Immersing yourself in something you enjoy, whether it’s kayaking, painting, crafting, golfing, or crafting something new in the kitchen, can help you cope with unwanted feelings and thoughts. It can be hard for those in recovery to realize they do deserve happiness and to enjoy the little things in life. If you are feeling stuck, lonely, or fear certain triggers are on the horizon, get out and enjoy yourself.

The ECHO Recovery Community Helps You Cope with Triggers

Positive coping techniques can include practicing mindfulness, surrounding yourself with a solid support system, finding a regular exercise or activity you enjoy, or any of the other tips listed above. What is most important is finding techniques that work best for you. Triggers can be difficult, but their impact can be fleeting with the right coping systems in place.

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James Haggerty

Experienced Chief Executive Addiction Recovery and Mental Health Professional

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The 4 Key Pillars of Addiction Recovery

One way to create a strong foundation is through the four key pillars of addiction recovery. Recovering from a substance use disorder is a challenging process and may require significant changes in your life. A substance use disorder impacts many aspects of your life, including mental health, physical health, relationships, connections with the community, and more. Altering these aspects of your life during recovery does not make the process any easier but is often necessary to retain the progress that’s been made.

It’s important to remember that you are not alone in the challenges you face. Many people nationwide and around the world are going through the process of recovery. You’ll also have support along the way, as it is possible to continue your journey in treatment and rehabilitation while working toward long-lasting recovery. To do so, it is key to provide yourself with the environment and tools needed for success.

SAMHSA’s Four Pillars of Recovery

To begin, it is crucial to note that there is no perfect path to recovery. Just as every individual is different, so is every SUD story and every recovery story. As such, there are many methods used by professionals to define a healthy approach to recovery, as well.

However, the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) defines the four essential pillars of recovery :

Physical health
A stable home
Community support
Purpose and meaning

These pillars are meant to provide a foundation for recovery, change, and a healthier life. Recovery is a long process that has different challenges throughout. The first few months and years of recovery are not the same as recovery later in your life. Recovery takes time to become established and lasts a lifetime – and a strong foundation supports you in success.

SAMHSA’s pillars provide insight into the four areas of your own health that are important to maintain for recovery. When you care for these four aspects of your mental and physical health, you can develop the strength and well-being essential for lasting recovery.

What Are the Pillars of Addiction Recovery?

Recovery is not a straightforward path, but by taking care of the four pillars of your personal health, you provide yourself with the strength, support, and care necessary to avoid substance use. Without caring for your own mental, emotional, physical, social, and spiritual health, you leave yourself significantly more vulnerable to future relapse.

Physical Health

An essential first step of recovery is taking care of your physical health. When you look after your physical health, your body is better equipped to handle stress and recover from the physical damage caused by substance use. You’re able to make more informed decisions, and your body is able to heal.

Take care of your body and health by making ongoing changes, including:

Abstaining from substance use – This may include any potentially addictive drug or alcohol, not only the substance you are in recovery from. Find support from a treatment center to look after your physical health during this time.
Schedule appointments with healthcare professionals – See a doctor, physical therapist, counselor, dentist, or other healthcare provider who can help improve your physical health.
Eat a nutritious and balanced diet – and stay hydrated. Eating high-quality foods and complete meals can help your body heal and recover from substance use. When you’re hungry or eating non-nutritious foods, your body and brain are more vulnerable.
Get enough sleep – Try to get quality time asleep and maintain a regular schedule to keep mentally sharp and improve your physical health.
Take breaks – Find time to meditate and relax to engage in mindfulness.
Get regular exercise – Exercise increases serotonin and endorphins, and there is a link between getting exercise and limiting the effects of depression, anxiety, and stress. Regular exercise can also improve your overall physical health – even something like a short walk every day can make a significant difference.

When your body is healthier, you can reduce the symptoms of mental health disorders and deal with stress or sudden emotional changes. These are all common effects of the recovery process. When your body is happy and healthy, it is often easier to avoid the temptation of substance use.

Psychological Health

Physical and mental health are interconnected, and it’s essential to look after your psychological health. Substance use disorders may result from mental health issues such as post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, and combinations of these and other disorders. Treating these underlying causes of substance use can support physical health and recovery.

Treatment for mental health disorders or general psychological help during recovery includes:

Attending professional counseling or therapy – This may include talk therapy or otherwise working with a mental healthcare professional to address trauma and learn coping mechanisms.
Joining group therapy and 12-step meetings – Talking with or witnessing others who are going through the same struggles and joys during recovery can be cathartic, make you feel supported, and give you hope for the future.
Going offline – There are several ways that social media can help and harm recovery. It’s important to recognize how the use of technology is aiding or hindering your journey so you can take steps that benefit your mental health.
Practicing mindfulness – Take time in your day to center yourself, whether through meditation, yoga, or journaling. This can help your brain manage stress.

Another important aspect of your psychological health is a stable and safe home. Living in an unstable environment causes immense amounts of stress. If your current living situation includes people or circumstances with substance use, it could have a negative impact on your recovery.

It’s not always easy to find stable and safe housing. For many, it’s not financially possible. Substance use can cost a lot of money and make it hard to find work, leading to significant financial issues.

If you’re unable to move to a new place, reach out to friends, family, a sober living community, or temporary housing programs. When you’re in early recovery, a recovery and sober living community may be ideal for providing community support and a stable environment. Independent living or housing with safe friends and family can be ideal later in your recovery journey.

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Social Support

Community and social support are other essential aspects of your personal health. Every human needs connections, whether that means family, friends, relationships, or any community of people who you can relate to. Healthy interpersonal relationships promote mental and emotional health and support your efforts toward sobriety.

You may find community in several ways, including:

Group therapy, support groups, and peer support programs – You can find others who have been through or are currently dealing with the same issues as you.
Local volunteer organizations – These can combine other aspects of health and allow you to make connections with others while giving back to your community.
Therapy or counseling – Not only can therapy help with mental wellness, but it can help you determine the healthy relationships in your life and determine ways to make new connections. This also enables you to have a professional emergency contact if you are worried about your path during recovery.
Close connections – In addition to or in lieu of therapy, have close individual friends or groups of friends that you can emotionally connect with and rely on. You may want to repair relationships that were harmed during your substance use, or you may want to reevaluate relationships that were abusive or otherwise unhealthy.
Spending time with supportive groups of friends – Having a network or group of friends that support your journey to recovery is important, and it can be helpful to find friend groups who can enjoy time together without substance use and who have similar passions to you. Friends who are not supportive of your journey, pressure you, or engage in behavior that makes you uncomfortable are harmful friends, whether or not you are recovering from substance use.
Adopting pets – For many people, a pet is a wonderful way to develop routines, have company throughout the day, and provide hope for the future. Pets also provide unconditional love that can help during recovery.

A supportive community and network of people you can rely on is essential to social and mental health and helps you feel a sense of belonging. Meaningful relationships help you improve your communication skills as well as your personal self-esteem. They also help with accountability, healing, hope, and encouragement during recovery. Your recovery will benefit from strong social ties.

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Spiritual Health

For many people, recovery involves eliminating habits, hobbies, and activities. Though necessary, you have to replace those hobbies and activities with healthier alternatives. Otherwise, boredom and lack of focus make recovery more difficult.

When you have a focus and a passion in your life that doesn’t revolve around a substance, your recovery journey is more likely to be successful because you have motivation and joy from other sources.

You can find hope for the future when you engage in new and meaningful passions with people you love and who support you. Taking care of spiritual health means you find a purpose or a meaning in your life.

This is something different for every person and may include:

Educational endeavors or goals – These are especially useful when you’re passionate about your learning.
Work or a career path – In addition to a purpose, working gives you the financial resources needed to thrive.
Volunteer work – You can spend time with others, work toward a common goal, and maybe even get some exercise. Most importantly, volunteer work gives you a purpose and allows you to give to your community.
Caring for others – This may include family members, friends, or others in the community that you love, and your support may be financial, emotional, or physical. Helping a loved one can provide much-needed meaning and purpose.
Mindfulness and meditation – This may include finding your purpose in centering yourself with your thoughts and emotions, connecting with the natural world, meditating through art, or other forms of mindfulness.
Religion – Spiritual health may come in the form of spiritual practices and faith in their religion. You can find meaning in life by contributing to and working with your religious community.
Creativity and art therapy – There are many creative activities that you could find a passion for, such as dancing, painting, singing, writing, or creating music. Art therapy is an effective way to merge a passion with mental healing.

There are many other avenues that may help you find a healthy path to finding meaning and passion in your daily life. Those in your support system may be able to help you.

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How the Four Pillars of Recovery Work Together

When you focus on health and improvement in these essential pillars, it can aid in your recovery. They have helped many individuals form strong foundations in recovery, including someone very familiar to us here at ECHO Recovery, a person we’ll call Sarah. Sarah dealt with an opioid use disorder for many years. She attempted recovery time and again but suffered several relapses.

Focusing on the four pillars of recovery provided Sarah with a more comprehensive treatment and recovery program.

She did the following to address the four pillars:

She focused on yoga and exercise to improve her physical health. This had the added benefit of a consistent and healthy routine, as well as increasing her confidence.
She found psychological treatment for the underlying causes of her substance use and received care for trauma. Through this, she was able to learn techniques and coping mechanisms to manage triggers for substance use.
She found support through peer support programs and group therapy. This gave her connections, belonging, and accountability during recovery.
She practiced mindfulness and meditation. This helped her find purpose in life, hope for the future, and motivation to continue with her recovery.

Through this encompassing recovery, Sarah has been in recovery for more than two years and is continuing her recovery journey toward a productive, healthier, and happier life.

Find Long-Term Addiction Recovery and Support

As you can see, each of the four pillars of recovery is essential to supporting full, lasting healing from SUD. Without any of the four, the other three are unable to support recovery. In this way, all aspects of your personal health are interconnected. Therefore, focusing on each of the four aspects can help you manage your needs.

For recovery to be a successful journey, it is essential to take care of yourself and all your needs, whether physical, emotional, community-based, or spiritual. While recovery is not always a straight line, attention to these pillars can help you persevere and give yourself grace along the way. With these things in place, you, too, can reach lasting recovery. ECHO Recovery is here to provide you with addiction treatment and sober living resources.

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James Haggerty

Experienced Chief Executive Addiction Recovery and Mental Health Professional

jameshaggertyrecovery.com

How Community Helps with Addiction Recovery

You may not have considered how a community helps with addiction recovery, but I’d like to discuss several ways that a community can make a difference. It’s common for those recovering from substance use disorder (SUD) to feel isolated from the rest of the world. However, you don’t have to navigate this journey on your own. With community support, your journey toward sobriety can be completely altered in a positive and engaging way.

I’ve met countless people who struggled to find – and stay on – the path toward recovery. In fact, I was one of them. Whether we were ashamed of our past or felt we wouldn’t be accepted, I, and others like me, felt isolated – as if the goal I was working toward was so far away it was unobtainable.

However, by connecting with others who are walking a similar path, we can share our own stories and encourage others. This is one of the essential roles of the recovery community, and it’s one we felt strongly enough about to assemble the ECHO Recovery community.

Finding an Addiction Recovery Community

Most people who choose to pursue recovery once struggled to make that difficult first step. Among other issues, they may have felt they would be left behind by loved ones or even may have felt as if they had nobody that would be supportive of their journey. However, it’s crucial to remind yourself that this is a journey you do not have to take on your own.

Finding a community of people you can relate to and share similar experiences with can make a significant difference as you walk the path toward recovery. Fortunately, you don’t need to do it from scratch – there are many community-building resources already in place. Let’s explore some of the most common.

Addiction Recovery Community Options

Some of the most common examples of resources you can use as you begin to build your recovery community are 12-step programs. The best-known examples are the “Anonymous” groups, like Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) and Narcotics Anonymous (NA). Individual 12-step groups typically meet once each week, but you can find these groups in abundance in most areas so that you can attend a meeting each day if you’d like.

In 12-step meetings, members listen to one another’s struggles, stories, and progress and offer support in any way possible. Depending on the type of meeting, members may discuss working through one or more of the steps or defining one of the major principles.

Overall, the purpose of the meeting is to provide a shared sense of community, reduce the isolation that often comes with substance use disorder, and perpetuate the goal of the 12-step program. This goal is not to remain sober forever but simply to refrain from substances that day. By setting meaningful and achievable goals and working in community with one another, 12-step groups like AA and NA can help you build resources for the future.

Another community-building example is SMART Recovery, which stands for Self-Management and Recovery Training. In SMART Recovery, there are four basic guidelines to follow:

Find and maintain motivation.
Manage your urges.
Properly handle thoughts, emotions, and behaviors.
Find a balance in life and maintain it.

As you can see, neither of these community resources is focused on finding a cure or diagnosing co-occurring conditions. Instead, they focus on supporting others walking similar paths and building up both the givers and the receivers of support. In fact, the 12th step refers to living all the steps in your daily life so that you and those around you can continue walking the path of recovery.

If an in-person support group is not feasible for you, or you want to explore elsewhere, you can always visit online forums, where you can discuss your struggles with people from across the globe.

How to Choose Addiction Recovery Support

You may not know where to look for a support community, and that’s okay. To find a community, you can speak with your physician, contact the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) or reach out to a recovery community like ECHO Recovery. You may feel you’re the only one needing support, but the reality is that more than 40 million people had SUD in 2020, and many are still on the path toward recovery.

Types of Groups to Avoid

While a recovery community can make a significant difference in the lives of those with SUD, there are types of support groups you should avoid. For example, if a group is requesting high attendance fees or pressuring you to purchase certain products, you may want to look for support elsewhere. Many groups exist due to donations and support from those who attend, but high costs should not be a roadblock for anyone who needs community.

If a group promises to cure your problems, you’ll definitely want to look elsewhere. SUD isn’t a curable disorder, but it is a disorder that can be managed with motivation, effort, and genuine support.

Why Join an Addiction Recovery Community?

Many people who have completed a treatment program or are beginning recovery may not understand the significance of how community helps with addiction recovery. However, joining a community of people all walking the path toward recovery can provide several unique benefits. Here are a few key reasons to consider participating in your own recovery community.

Improved and Increased Communication

It can be daunting to open up about your struggles, especially as someone who has struggled with substance use. You may worry about being ridiculed, shunned, or ignored as a result of your past. However, participating in a recovery community means people are there to facilitate discussions about these struggles and help you see that you are not alone.

While you are not forced to share, if you do choose to speak, the floor becomes yours for a period of time. By being honest with the community, including yourself, you can develop a clear focus on what’s next in your recovery journey. If you’re feeling isolated, you can create and strengthen relationships with others who have been in your situation.

Measuring Success

Taking that first step and accepting help from others is incredibly difficult, especially for those battling SUD. Similarly, when you interact with others in a recovery community for the first time, you may feel nervous and confined. As you progress, however, you’ll open up more and have the support of others ready to cheer you on. Because of this, you can more easily gauge your progress in recovery. In return, you can help to provide this support to others as they experience pitfalls and successes.

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Becoming Inspired By Others

You can find inspiration in a recovery community in many ways. For example, you may meet someone who didn’t want to be there or felt the experience was a waste of time. However, you may then see them become an integral part of the community.

Others may thrive in the recovery community from the beginning, and by witnessing their successes as well as their struggles, you can get inspiration for handling your own journey. Seeing the multitude of ways others navigate the difficult journey toward recovery can help you find the motivation you need to keep going. This is an important feature of a recovery community.

Pushing Through Difficult Times

It’s important to remember that tough times will not go away just because you’re in recovery. You will have bad days, you’ll slip, or a crisis will pop up when you least expect it. The point is that difficulties don’t just apply to people with SUD; everyone experiences tough times. When you do encounter a tough situation, your recovery community is there to help you navigate your struggles.

Repaired Relationships

SUD is notorious for damaging and even completely destroying relationships, but this doesn’t have to be forever. With the support of others, you can not only build new relationships, but you can learn how to repair or strengthen the ones you already have. A community can help you practice interacting with others who know what you’ve been through so you can put the same skills to work in relationships that may have been suffering due to your SUD.

More About Accountability and Inspiration

Accountability is crucial for those of us with SUD to make meaningful changes in our lives. With community support, we’re more likely to take responsibility for our actions, and we can encourage others to be accountable as well. Being accountable can be inspiring to others looking to make changes in their own lives, which is why being responsible is essential in the recovery process.

How Community Support Facilitates Accountability

By frequently engaging with others in a community setting, you’ll be more prepared and motivated by others to make changes in your life, and vice versa. For example, on your own, you may put off important recovery tasks and habits. You may choose not to do step work or skip writing in a recovery journal.

However, by meeting with your peers regularly, you’ll be more motivated to do what needs to be done because you have encouragement, support, and accountability – and you’ll learn to expect it from others, too. When everyone is committed to mutually supporting success, you’ll learn to take ownership of your recovery.

More About Rebuilding Relationships

As mentioned, SUD frequently contributes to damaged and broken relationships. You may have distanced yourself from others while actively using substances, treated one another poorly, or even sought unhealthy relationships with others in the midst of SUD. After you’ve spent your time using substances to cope with your daily struggles rather than looking to your friends and loved ones for support, it can be difficult to not only repair those relationships but become comfortable opening up with one another once again.

With a support community by your side, you have a strong chance of repairing broken relationships and healing from past hurt.

Community Support is Crucial in Repairing Relationships

People with SUD tend to isolate themselves from others as a result of substance use. While repairing relationships is challenging, it is possible. One of the best ways to stay motivated in recovery is by rebuilding trust with others. People in recovery who want to repair a relationship often begin by making amends to those they have harmed with their substance use (a critical step in a 12-step program) and then find forgiveness for those who harmed them in the past. After forgiveness, you can begin a fresh start, one that doesn’t include fixation on substance use.

It can seem daunting to offer amends and forgiveness to those in relationships damaged by SUD. However, if you truly want to start fresh, asking for and offering forgiveness is an essential part of the process. Recovery communities can encourage you along the way and offer support and new friendships if your relationship cannot be repaired.

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Should My Friends and Family Be Involved in Recovery?

As indicated by the broken and damaged relationships most people in recovery have in common, SUD doesn’t impact only one individual. Instead, it impacts friends, family, and other important people in your life. If you have the option and the desire to involve your family and friends in your recovery, consider adding them to your recovery community. Your friends and family members may have developed their own ways of dealing with your SUD in the past. They may have kept their distance from you, tried to control your actions, or established boundaries that preserved their physical and mental health.

While it’s important for them to make their own decisions regarding their involvement in your recovery community, being open and honest and providing mutual love and support can benefit you both as recovery continues. Your loved ones want you to live a meaningful and fulfilling life, and it’s essential that they understand what they can do to support you when things become difficult.

Many recovery centers, support groups, and other community resources host family education sessions that can help your loved ones understand multiple aspects of SUD. These topics range from how to best support your loved one in recovery, communication methods and strategies, setting healthy boundaries, and more. Encouraging your loved ones to join your recovery community and build one of their own can positively affect your recovery and your relationships with them.

Consider these options:

SAMHSA offers several different therapy options to anyone walking the path toward recovery, and your loved ones can get involved in the process, too.
Another option for families who want to be involved in their loved one’s recovery from SUD is Al-Anon. Al-Anon offers family therapy for those who have misused alcohol, and their website contains plenty of resources for those considering other avenues of community building.
You can also visit the National Institute on Drug Abuse website for information regarding SUD, including statistics and programs.

ECHO: A Healing Addiction Recovery Community

Recovery is an arduous process, and many believe they must navigate it alone. However, recovery doesn’t have to be done on your own. By seeking support and building a community of other people walking similar paths as you, you can learn healthier strategies for managing your life’s difficulties and encourage others as well. In addition, you can bring your friends and family along with you and begin repairing relationships broken by SUD.

Whether you’re aiming to repair relationships, find inspiration, and develop accountability, or you’re simply yearning for others who understand your experience, ECHO Recovery can help provide the resources you need. Our goal is to educate and encourage those with SUD so they can work toward living a robust, fulfilling life. Our sober housing initiative can help those unable to support themselves during the initial steps of treatment, and we also offer a platform to support art as a means of expressing thoughts in recovery.

James Haggerty

Experienced Chief Executive Addiction Recovery and Mental Health Professional

jameshaggertyrecovery.com